Unless youâve been living under a rock for the past year or so, youâll remember how serial bad boy radio jock Gareth Cliff got the whole country riled up with his observation that â22 year old girls do nothing but lie on their backs with their legs open!â
The comment followed from an interview with 22 year old AIDS activist Angela Larken, who started working with charities from the age of 19. When taken in context, the comment isnât too terrible â if youâre completely soul-less â and, considering itâs Gareth Cliff weâre talking about, the comment is almost PC.
Itâs no secret that Cliff is a misogynist â he clearly hates women â but compared to some of the comments Iâve read online and heard casually uttered by acquaintances, Cliff positively adores women.
I remember the first time I read âThe Kanga and the Kangaroo Courtâ by Mmatshilo Motsei about the Jacob Zuma rape trail and how people just demonised the alleged victim. She went from being a rape victim to being this gold-digging, psycho witch who had ask for it and deserved what she got.
This response shocked me because for the first time, I realised that this was what real sexism is. Sexism sometimes wears a clown mask, but no matter how funny the joke about the midget and the receptionist, the truth is that the male of the species has a real hate-love-hate relationship with women.
I once dated this guy, weâll call him X (see what I did there?) and we were at that stage in our relationship where everything is cute to no one but the people in the relationship.
X would put his friends on speaker when he was with me and I thought it was the most adorable thing ever (donât judge me, I was young), until the day he told one of his friends about me and the friend replied, âOkay, sheâs smart. But is she pretty?â
Pretty women sell things, be it fried chicken, skin lightening cream or cars, and thereâs nothing wrong with that. The problem starts when women are seen as nothing beyond background decoration for men, even powerful women whose looks have absolutely nothing to do with their job description.
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